i can't help but feel i chose the wrong house..

I don't think this was the right school for me.

You'll be fine. The biggest myth out there is you have 70 new best friends on day one. Totally not true. It takes time and effort to find your group within any house. You are fortunate to bond with other girls in other houses because that only multiplies your TCU experience. You get the best of both worlds. Strong friend groups should have members of multiple Greek houses as well as non Greeks.... The more, the merrier.

Give yourself time sounds Parental but it's true. Even if you got your top choice you wouldn't know anyone and would have to go out of your comfort zone. Every chapter can only take x number of girls so you are in the norm. Plus, all those 'top house' girls that overflowed quota inner up just like you. You get out of it what you allow yourself to get. If it's awful just don't do formal initiation .

You have to realize that for whatever reason you were not ranked high enough by the house you admire. People can't really know you during the hectic week of recruitment but no one should feel disappointed that they were wanted by a different house. The chapters here do have differences but each house has like kind of sub groups. Be open to finding the likeminded girls in the house that wanted you. Any house is what you make of it.

maybe you just don't fit in anywhere. Try a different school or quit whining.

I think perhaps you're having buyer's remorse. This is pretty common. You build up to rush during your senior year and the summer before college. You're so excited. Recruitment is exhilirating and exhausting. Then it's over.

Did you make the right decision? Should you drop out and have a do over? It seems like it was over too soon and you have all these unresolved feelings.

Stick with it and throw yourself into your house. Look at it as your only chance.

If your parents are paying for it just stay with it. You aren't going to get into another house if you rush again. Suck it up buttercup.

I hope you are feeling better about your choice now. It does take time to find like minded girls in your class. Every chapter has every type of girl though. Go to all your meetings, socials, volunteer to help when possible. You can make this your home. Just getting settled away from home at college is a big adjustment for most people. Wishing you luck.