advice for pnm conversations

This is what each house is looking for in a PNM:
Grades: Theta, ChiO, AXO, sometimes GPhi
Daddy's paycheck: ChiO and TriDelt, bonus points if you're from southlake or highland park
Looks: Zeta, DG, PiPhi, sometimes Kappa
HS involvement, sports & leadership: ChiO, AXO, and Theta specifically looks for SGA/ NHS type of girls
Outgoing personality: kappa, PiPhi, GPhi, AXO
Sweet personality: SK, ADPi
Hopefully this will help you with deciding what to focus your conversations on for each house. Just don't be fake and sure as hell don't lie to try and fit in with a certain house because shortly into the pledge process you will realize that you don't fit in and you will be miserable.