Rankings for PNMs

Remember that the “social ranking” of your sorority does not define you. It genuinely does not matter. After freshman year, people do not even talk about it (and if they do they’re insecure).

Don’t write off “bottom” or “mid” sororities just because you don’t want to seem “uncool”. Being in Greek life regardless of rankings is worth it. There is so much panhel love and you will have so many friends in different houses. If you take a “chance” on a mid or bottom sorority, you have nothing to lose. You can always just drop in the new member process.

But if you just drop during the process because you don’t want to be in a “weird” sorority you might regret it. Especially if all your other friends do join houses and you get fomo because you’re not in a house. All sororities (yes, all of them) have date nights, formal, events with frats, get merch and have sisterhood events.

There are going to be girls who only get 3 houses back after the first round. And there will be some that get the max. It doesn’t have anything to do with you as a human being. Unfortunately recruitment is very superficial, and anyone who doesn’t tell you that is lying.

You will end up where you are supposed to be. There will be people you click with and dislike in any house you join. Good luck and be kind to yourself.