pot stirrers

Is it just me or does anything else think all this pot stirring isn't even from the girls in these houses? I guess I'm just saying, you see so many girls who are really good friends with girls in other house like tri delt and alpha phi or alpha phi and dg or kappa and tridelt or phi sig and kappa, etc. I just feel like these girls wouldn't go on here and run other houses down that some of their best friends belong to. I don't know, that's just how I see it.