virginity + college

I'm sure there have been similar people to me, right? And I'm sure this has been asked before but never received a reply. I am a virgin, I've never done anything "freaky" cause I was so busy in high school grinding to get into an Ivy (thank god that paid off). But I want to let go of that side of me. College is the time to explore and have fun, while trying to do well academically of course. I'm just wondering if this is bad. How can someone like me, inexperienced, slightly geeky, fit in with the social scene, the hookup scene, the party Penn? And if you too came to Penn as someone similar to myself, was it hard adjusting to just going crazy in college? And did it take you that long to get laid?

Im a girl
But stories from guys are appreciated