Hookup culture

by: incoming freshman Jul 11, 2020 3:06:34 AM

Hi, I don’t want to be the elephant in the room but I’ll be honest. I’m still a virgin, had a few hookups throughout high school. As a girl, does this make me any less or more desirable? College is supposed to be where you lose your virginity right haha. So my question, what’s the hookup culture like at Penn? Does experience matter? What is attractive, what are turnoffs? I’d appreciate a reply!!

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#1 by: bump Jul 11, 2020 4:09:06 AM

same ques

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#2 by: Aw Jul 11, 2020 10:32:17 AM

Don’t be worried, this is the type of life stuff that just happens when it happens. Be nice above all else, and be yourself. Also don’t try too hard to make things happen, big turnoff.

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#3 by: dw Jul 11, 2020 11:49:41 AM

it depends on the guy, like some will think its better if a girl is a virgin while others dont. ive heard that for serious relationships (not casual hook ups), some guys want a girl who has experience but is also a virgin. hook up culture is v common bc most ppl r too busy for actual relationships. what guys find attractive depends on the type of guys u want to like, ie sceney guys or athletes or studious ppl... it's good to have decent experience like u dont want to be known as a bad hu. a universal tip is to be confident in urself. gl with whatever u decide to do!

By: dwJul 11, 2020 11:49:41 AM