this is total bs

Sorority rush is all about who you know, recommendation letters, grades do not matter. Having a daughter that wen through this process I figured out pretty quickly you only get into what is considered a top sorority (Kappa, Theta, DDD) if you are legacy or if you have friends that are going to push you through regardless of of grades, etc. My daughter had excellent grades (made the presidents honor roll), excellent recommendation and she was wasn't considered a great asset for any of the above mentioned sororities. She did get a bid and is part of a sorority but I'm not sure she will last the entire 4 years. Be prepared for disappointed if you do not have a connection in those what is considered the top houses.