not rushing

Another girl from my high school is coming through recruitment and told me about all of the bad stuff on this site. It leaves a sour taste in my mouth and I'm seriously considering not rushing at all. Why would I want to be in a sorority at OU when all you do is hate each other? You're all so hateful to one another and comment after comment is either an insane claim or finger pointing in an obvious attempt to make someone look bad and to make your sorority look better.