for new pnms at OU

Don't let anyone tell you that any certain house is a top house but another one is a low house. The truth is that all the houses are filled with excellent girls who are interested in different things. You can be happy and find your people in any house you choose. You need to look around and see if the vibe of the house is for you or not. If the people who kind of run the house are blonde and rich and you're not, know that you can find happiness there but may face some kind of pressure that you won't in another house. If you have to work really hard for good grades, a house that emphasizes grades will probably stress you a lot and may require you to do more study halls than some of your sisters. If you're more casual, it may be hard to keep up the requirements of a house that has rules for how you look when you go out. BUT, there will be girls who feel just like you in every house, so if you meet your girls during recruitment, don't rate a house low because some of the others are not like you.