Pay attention to this

If you've been on this site, you've seen all kinds of ranks that make no sense to you. You have gotten to meet the girls in all the houses and see where the girls in your Rho G group went.

You probably know which houses were the ones most girls wanted. You know which girls got their choices most days. You know these ranks don't match your actual lived experience.

Do you wonder who is making these ranks? I'll tell you. It's people whose only knowledge about the OU sororities was many years ago. Do you wonder why? The alumane want to keep the ranks of their houses up on here so that they can be sure to make quota. Moms want to uprank their own house and maybe their daughter's house. One house has it's own girls on here upranking them (or at least they did before recruitment.)

What should you do? First, get off this site. It's toxic and it's absolutely false. Second, get enthusiastic about your own house, even if some idiot on here ranked it near the last. Third, get involved on campus and get to know lots of people -- some greek, some independent, some in your dorm, and some in your classes. Forth, start enjoying this time in your life when you don't have to follow a mold. Be yourself.

Don't expect other people to endorse this post because it doesn't fit in their narrative. And don't believe the ranks and gossip you see on here.