let’s be real

Rush is a very tricky thing, and it’s really hard to give answers in these types of situations. Maybe you did belong in a higher house, but those top houses also have to put forth their best offers for girls. I’m not saying you weren’t one of those, but maybe those girls had better connections somewhere or were legacies? A lot of legacies and girls with different connections often times don’t fit the “personas” of certain houses, so maybe they had these while you had more of the personality/looks. It’s flip flopped. Don’t hang your head! You’re still in Greek life and all chapters are great! Wear you letters proudly! It’s fine to hangout with girls in other houses, a lot of girls do that. But if you’re not thoroughly enjoying your house, you should consider dropping or trying to get involved within it! Greek life is a huge investment (time and money wise) and it would be a bummer is you’re just wasting both! I hope this helped! Best of luck to you :)

Wow aren’t you judgmental! Maybe the top houses viewed you as one of “those” kind of girls. Please do your house a favor and drop out so they don’t have to put up with someone who doesn’t want to be there and judges them as lesser.

Maybe it’s because you didn’t put on a mask and be fake during your recruitment? I mean, that’s what a lot of the top houses recruit anyways

This is the problem with rankings it give people this high school popularity/hierarchy mindset. It’s one thing to not feel like you fit in a house, but it’s another to look down on something because it seems weird to you.