would you rather???

you will meet your absolute best friends in your pledge class. I know roommates who did not dicuss their decisions with each other at all in fear that they would influence each other. They pledged different sororities and have found some truly amazing girls and still have a great relationship themselves! Sounds like you didn't make the best decision :(

There is no reason to second guess yourself! You followed your heart and you are where you deep down want to be. You can't be worried about hurting someone's feelings just because you didn't pledge her sorority.

I chose my sorority based in the actives I knew.
I've made so many great friends, and am still friends with all my friends in other sororities.

You will be spending lots and lots of time with your pledge class so it makes sense to want to be with friends! That is what I did and now we are all so close!

I almost chose a sorority because I knew a bunch of actives but I ended up going with my gut and choosing a different sorority. Would've been very unhappy going for the sorority I almost did based on my friends. Choose whichever feels like the right fit!