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Should I tell houses how much I like them during round 2 (tonight), or is it too early?

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#1  by: Active   
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It's not too early. Tell them for sure

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#2  by: Yes   
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Too early. Wait until pref

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#3  by: You can   
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Say something but don't come off as desperate...then say stronger things at pref

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#4  by: Yas   
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It's not too early! It's time!

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#5  by: Last year   
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Last year I had a pnm tell me that if she didn't get a bid to my house she was going to just die. She held my hands and bounced up and down as she said it. I found her so adorable that I immediately went in search of the rush chair!

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by: TbhSep 30, 2015 12:55:07 PM

If I had a pnm do that I'd be weirded out unless it was an absolutely adorable moment. Nor many can pull it off

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#6  by: SAY SOMETHING   
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Definitely say something!! If we know you love us, we will bend over backwards to try to invite you back to meet more sisters. Just make sure you don't sound desperate.

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by: rushingSep 30, 2015 4:50:19 PM

how would you recommend we say it so we don't sound desperate?

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by: ExamplesSep 30, 2015 5:35:17 PM

You should definitely say something, but you don't want to come off as desperate or stalker-ish.
If the convo with your rusher is going really well...
DO say something like "By the way, I just wanted to let you know how much I love your house! Everyone has been so sweet, fun, and welcoming. I've had an amazing time and I feel really at home here!"
DO NOT say "OMG please, please invite me back! I love you and all of your sisters so much and I really think I am destined be one of y'all! I already feel like we're all best friends! I'll just die if you don't invite me back to Pref!"
The first clearly shows them that you're interested, and it sounds a lot more genuine and poised. You will more than likely be remembered in a very positive way.
The second shows you're interested, but comes across WAY too strong and makes you seem psycho. You will almost assuredly be remembered in an extremely negative way.
Good luck!!!

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