adpi abuse
by: Confused pnm
Straight up, in the last few days I've had 56 Adpi 's friend request me on Facebook and even more are now following me on Instagram and Twitter.
This is way way more than any other sorority. I'm concerned because I don't want all the other chapters to think I want Adpi. I don't even know one girl in the chapter. I think my brother might know one girl.
Isn't this against the rush rules for them? I'm afraid they are marking me as I've heard some of the other sororities do. I don't want to be rude and not accept them because who knows, I might receive a bid from them in the end and love them, I just want to give all sororities a chance .
Other sororities reached out to me in the springtime, but Adpi is literally blowing up my social media. How can I get them to stop without being rude???
Are other sororities doing the same and I'm just not on their radar?
#1by: Oh man
Actives shouldn't be friending and following pnms at this point unless you've met them. Lots of sororities break this rule, not just adpi. You could call Panhellenic to let them know but honestly, no one is going to assume you want ADPi. Not many girls are gunning for ADPi at this point because they're still the new kid on the block.
Comment#4by: why
Why would you call this abuse... would you call it abuse if the same thing was happening to you from a supposed "top tier"? no you'd be on here asking if it meant you were going to get a bid. I actually highly doubt this is a PNM... but rather someone trying to make ADPi look bad prior to recruitment. If it IS a PNM then just ignore the request if you don't want to be friends with these girls.. don't come on here and say a chapter is "abusing" you though... SMH....
#6by: call Panhellenic
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by: PNM!!!!!
I am a PNM and yes, adpi has been bombarding me too! OP apparently isn't the only one. And, yes you are right, I wouldn't care if it was tri delt or chi o or kd or dg.
I will lock down my ig/Twitter until after rush.
I too don't want to upset adpi. I might end up with a bid, but I too don't want to think they are staking their claim on me and potentially discouraging others!
OP's concerns are valid.
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