Promised bids???

PNM's don't understand what bid promising is. "Can't wait to see you" and all kinds of encouraging words like that are not bid promising. If it is explicitly worded as "you are getting a bid" then that's absolutely illegal and a chapter or members would have to be complete morons to risk breaking that rule on insta. CPH would be all over that and then god help them. Also, individual members DO NOT speak for their chapters. The only thing that's real for a pnm is what shows up on her schedule each round. So let's get a handle on what's really going on here; sororities' #1 priority is to get everyone to like them and want them, and are experts at it, but pretty words are never a guarantee and pnm's every year think they've been 'bid promised' and even brag about it, but don't fall for that bs. As far as quota, not set until after pref round, so no one has any idea what that would be. Cuts every round are made based on percentages, never to get to a certain hard number. Cuts are worst in the first rounds so just expect that. If you go to pref and rank both your houses, or just the one if that's all you've got, you will get a bid. If you suicide and only list one of two houses you are not guaranteed that bid. The more pnm's attending pref and ranking houses means more bids. Focus on what you can control, and that's yourself and how well you make an impression.

Troll post. Move along.

Message says we would love to have you join Phi Mu. The other one from Alpha Phi wasn’t as straightforward as that. She is going to send them to her recruitment counselor.

Phi Mu has done this before. And I can see aphi using any tactic to try and make girls think they are a desired house and not just a where you end up house.