do the math—it’s not personal

Simple math for top sororities: 300+ members voting.. Even if only HALF have someone they each really want, that’s 150 PNMs...a decent percentage of which are legacies. And this year, they won’t all make the cut. Therefore if you don’t have someone or multiple people pulling for you, your odds are poor. You could be the most amazing pnm but the problem is, THEY DONT KNOW YOU. They know their Mississippi bff’s from down the line from high school ...and their mom knows other moms with nieces, blah blah. The top tier are dominated by in state members (and close regions like Memphis).