sooo

Play it safe and listen to the alumnae. Sorority members aren't the only ones who check out your social media. There will be advisers and the alums writing your recs looking at it, too. I know one PNM who can't get any alumnae to do recs because of what's on her Facebook. She comes across as a standards risk and none of them want to endorse her to wear their letters.Some might have even sent in "no recs" on her, which is where they give the sorority a heads up that a PNM might be a problem and that they don't advise she be considered for membership. Yep, it happens.

As for the PNMs you see getting drunk every night, their recruitments might already be dead in the water.

Its the Actives who are buying all the drinks to get the pnms drunk. I'd say you are safe. If they are buying, it just means they are recruiting you.

Why would any sorority want to take an obvious standards risk? Listen to the Alumnae! It's not about not drinking, it's about keeping it under the radar.