competitivfe? it's been called horrific.

If PNM is invited back to a chapter she didn't like (ranked it lower/lowest), the ones she ranked higher didn't want her as much as the other PNMs they did invite back (sorry but it's true sweetie). None of the other chapters on campus prevented her from being invited to the ones she liked better, she just didn't make the cut. PNMs rank chapters and make wishes and pray, but Chapters cut. There's only so many places in a pledge class. And Ole Miss Recruitment is competitive. It's competitive if you're the one getting cut. If the school uses RFM (google it at NPC), then it's competitive. PERIOD. You, the PNM, need to understand that competitive generally means that you will LIKELY find a home (presuming you have all the required credentials) but you may not find THE original home you dreamed of before recruitment started. And it IS a mutual selection process if you go all the way through rush as the superstar PNM who doesn't get cut by any chapters. That's when the PNM gets to participate in the cutting. It does happen, even at the schools like Ole Miss, just not very often. It goes that way for a handful of girls (about 300 to 500) at Ole Miss each year. Out of over 1,100 PNMs, if a girl can do SOME deciding, then that's great, but she shouldn't expect (although they all seem to think so every year) to get her to get her top list for every round without having to go to some lower houses