no one cares

So I'm a girl and I just looked through a post that ranked fraternities and couldn't help but to note how irrelevant and how little it actually matters when it comes to who I chose to hang out with, what parties I attend, how I perceive others etc etc. I can't help but to think guys have the same reaction to sorority rankings (really I hope you aren't more petty than girls). From the inside of a sorority looking out, I assume people cast certain judgements when they see girls in certain letters but the big picture of it all is that individually, the only thing that matters is who you are as a person. So no matter what house you're in just remember that most people don't care what letters you're wearing and if they do they probably are too pathetic to be worthy of your time. Important for boys and girls going through rush too. It's important to find the best group for you and not the best group for how you want others to perceive you