dropped

Rushing as a sophomore almost never improves chances.

Generally what they said above is true, sophomore re-rush will not go better for you unless something dramatically changes with you such as you become really close friends with a lot of girls in one house, become super involved and well-known or do something remarkable that makes people want you.

Yes, many of our houses have a one and done policy, but if you couldn't see yourself in the one house you had left then maybe you weren't really meant to be Greek. You can try signing up for COB after recruitment is over, but if there are houses with openings they are probably going to be the houses you weren't feeling.

Follow your heart. If you are meant to be Greek them the right opening will show up!!!


You did what was right for you'. Bravo

Honestly, you passed up your best chance of joining a sorority at Ole Miss when you withdrew. I'm sorry you didn't think you'd find best friends in a pledge class of 150-200 amazing beautiful and accomplished girls. I'm sorry you think you're too good to wear some of the letters on campus, because that's what you meant by "feeling like you didn't belong" there, right??

Here's the deal with COB. The houses that tend to participate are the same ones yOU think you're too good for.

Regarding sophomore rush, it's difficult to go through again. Really difficult. You're going to need a 3.75+ GPA , a group of really good friends in several houses to pull for you, and the maturity to realize you'd be lucky to get a bid to any house. Not all houses have the "once cut, always cut" rule, but many do.

only ADPi, Alpha Phi, and Theta will COB or spring rush. Everyone else is too big already. So if you dropped those houses then withdrew when you only had one of those left you shouldn't expect to get a bid anywhere else. You met maybe 10 girls in the entire sorority. It's a shame you couldn't see past that and know you would find your place, if not with current member then with the close to 200 girls in your pledge class.

You blew it. Suck it up and adjust to being a GDI or transfer.

Too bad you felt so negatively about girls willing to give YOU a chance when no other chapter would. You made your choice to not be in a sorority. You will miss out.