favor

Can I ask that all PNMs do me a favor- really think about who you have left today and why you are going through rush. If you are left with houses that you don't like or are not what you expect please ask yourself why you don't like them. Is it because you think they are "bottom"? Is it because people have told you they are "bottom" or that you would be "embarrassed" to wear their letters... if this is the case then please please please do all of us a favor and drop out. Those houses don't want you or need you as much as you don't want them! Trust me!

If you are left with houses that you didn't expect and you ask yourself the same question and the answer is "I'm not sure I liked them", "they seemed awkward" or "I don't see myself here I saw myself as a XYZ"... then please finish the process, please go to pref and look around at the other rushees that are standing beside you. Trust me when I say you have only met a SMALL SMALL percentage of the overall house. EVERY HOUSE has a weird girl, an awkward girl, a girl who is a HORRIBLE rusher and maybe you had the bad luck of getting this person, or even several of these people... but these are not the only girls in this house. Your pledge sisters are also the ones that you will be with the most. Do you see yourself with them? Do you like one or two or maybe even more! If yes then give this house a chance. You may find out that the house you didn't see yourself in was the house you were meant to be in all along.