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what i wish i had heard before i rushed

by: Experience

What I wish I had realized my freshman year was the tier of the sororities I was given bids to, did not mean I was that tier as a person. Actually, I wish most people would realize that. When people, usually guy friends, ask me why I joined the house I did, I tell them my experience of rush. They're usually surprised because they tell me I remind them of their friends in what's considered some of the top 4 houses. I hate hearing sororities getting torn down for tier, because it's nothing but a word of mouth. i vividly remember my friend during rush crying to me asking what she would do if she got cut from her top house, in which I told her she wouldn't be cut...her response to me embodied the idea of rush here, you can be a normal; kind, fun and exciting person and still make it into a "lower tier" sorority. She said "you can talk to anyone and be best friends with them and you didn't get the houses you wanted". I love my bottom tier sorority, because the girls in it are just like me..ones who the numbers didn't work out in our favor. i am not a lower tier girl, and neither is anyone else in my sorority, let alone any sorority on this campus. A sorority doesn't define a girls personality, especially at ole miss, because it's all about who you know

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#1  by: Seriously   
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This whole tier system is a mean girl tactic that has been used for years.
It's time to grow up, having beauty and money doesn't make you worth knowing. Pick a house for the character of the girls not their looks or the cars they drive.

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by: YeaSep 29, 2016 1:57:03 AM

Thank you

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by: LolSep 29, 2016 6:34:49 AM

not really fair of you to classify entire sororities as mean girls! This isn't high school.

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by: @LolSep 29, 2016 7:30:29 AM

No, it's worse. It's high school mean girls grown up into alumnae mean girls and momma mean girls. No one stoops lower on here to keep a stranglehold on their chapters' reputations, becoming downright vicious because this site is anonymous. It takes decades of experience to learn to plant lies and twist perceptions so skillfully while losing any little bit of conscience they might have had at one time. But it's okay because they go to church every Sunday like good Christian women.

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by: commentsSep 29, 2016 6:22:41 PM

^^^^^ @@LOL

No truer statement has ever been said on GreekRank!

Actives are not the ones who create drama on this site!

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#2  by: Well   
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Not really fair of you to put entire sororities in tiers based on a handful of girls you might know.

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