best rush advice
by: excited pnm!
Hi ladies!
So as you can probably tell us pnm's are pretty nervous. Could you all help me with some advice on how to go into recruitment and come out with the best possible scenario! Like if you were to rush again, what would you wish you knew! I don't mean like pinning chapters against each other, I just want the best experience possible thank you xo!
#1 by: Advice
1. Keep an open mind. I thought I wanted to be in a top tier house, and I ended up liking the middle tiers much better.
2. Don't get your heart set on any particular house. Indiana has one of the most competitive recruitments in the country. I was devastated to only have 4 housed sororities left after the first round (1 top tier, 1 middle tier, and 2 bottom tier). Personally, I was only interested in houses sororities, but that is a personal preference. The 3 unhoused sororities have great qualities. It was just important for me to live in a sorority house. The top tier sorority dropped me after the 2nd round, but I kept the middle tier and 2 bottom tiers the rest of the time. I was very fortunate to pref 3 housed sororities.
3. Be yourself. We can tell when you're being fake.
4. Don't forget to smile!!!
5. Have fun. Seriously, it is a grueling process, but you have to remember to have fun.
6. Breath mints or listerine strips.
Good luck!!
#2 by: Junior
Take a notepad with you to take notes about each sorority. DON'T WRITE DOWN NOTES UNTIL YOU GET TO THE NEXT HOUSE. You don't want the actives to see you writing down notes as soon as you walk out the door.
These notes will come in handy in ranking the middle of the pack. Your favorites and least favorites will stand out, but the middle houses will get a little blurry.
#4 by: Thank you so much
Thanks a lot guys- I'm honestly so nervous I cant stop thinking about this all. I cant even pinpoint what exactly im nervous about but i just want rush over whatever the outcome! You're honestly totally right about getting off greekrank, I REALLY should. its a shame that most of what i think i know about sororitys are from here. Thanks for the help good luck with rush season!
#5 by: Advice from A Junior
Getting off GreekRank is definitely great advice. But, in case you are still on here and looking for tips, here are some of mine:
1. Take GOOD notes about each chapter, especially during 22 party. It can be pretty hectic in between the rounds, but there is almost always down time. I'd recommend taking notes on memorable things about the chapter (their skit, memorable conversations, what the house looked like, etc.) as well as how you felt there. If you weren't comfortable for whatever reason, write that down. You might think you can remember everything about every chapter, but by the end of 22 party a lot of it will be a blur. Notes will help a lot when you're ranking.
2. Be yourself, but also be positive and happy. When you get your lists back, especially the morning of first invite, a lot of girls are disappointed with the number of houses they got back. When I recruited last year, it was very obvious when a PNM did not want to be there or was upset about her list, and we take note of that. Don't ruin your opportunities at other chapters because your first favorite did not ask you back. Treat every house as if it's your favorite. Smile and act happy to be there.
I have a lot to say so I'll continue on the next post (:
#6 by: Advice from A Junior
5. I'm sure you're nervous about your appearance, hair, makeup, outfit, etc. Keep in mind that appearance matters in the sense that we care about PNMs looking put together and taking pride in their appearance. However, flawless makeup and perfect outfits are not something we take into consideration. Sure, it helps you stand out, but the conversations you have with chapter members, your high school and college involvements, GPA, etc. matter SO much more. Of course I can't speak for every chapter, but what makes a PNM really stand out is her attitude and the conversations we have.
Good luck with recruitment! You'll hear "trust the process" a lot and it gets annoying, but it's true. Try to have fun with it! You get to meet tons of new people and hopefully find your home away from home (:
#7 by: Shocker
ALL PNM's try to remain Calm when going through recruitment! Don't freak if you get less then half the houses back. It really only takes one and they saw something in YOU......... that's why you got the invite BACK! Plus each house only can take a certain number of women.
#10 by: Advice
Don't pay attention to the tiers. As mentioned above, many many many girls will have their hearts broken and be left without a bid.
Be thankful if you receive a bid, even if it's from the "worst" sorority on campus because there are hundreds of girls who would love to have the spot.
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by: Just sayingJan 2, 2016 7:47:23 PM
I am really surprised you would say IU has one of the most competitive rushes in the country. Any list I've ever seen has never listed IU as a competitive rush. Most are southern schools. If a school the size of IU has 50-55 girls in a pledge class , they can not have THAT many rushing. Very confused by that statement and just looking for clarification because it just seems you are wanting to 'scare' girls into lower tiers if they want to be greek. Not arguing you, but just curious! Any numbers you can provide(how many girls rush, drop, join) would be helpful! Thanks!