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I went into rush with a very open mind. I tried to make connections with every house during every round. I found myself today with only 2 houses left. I felt no connection whatsoever with either one at any time so far. I have seen similar posts on here and I have a real problem with all the people saying "you should have stuck it out", or "you didn't give them a real chance". The houses get to pick and choose and cut girls all along because "they don't want you", or "they don't remember you", or "they had girls picked before they even met them" and that's okay but at the end when I drop because "I don't want them" I get blasted. This experience carries a great deal of emotional and financial investment. I don't need someone else to tell me where I do and don't fit in.

Posted By: IU 08
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So glad you did what’s best for you. Greek life just isn’t for some people and I know so many girls that are so financially invested in their house and hate it. Good for you!

By: Finally
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Im sorry you had a bad experience, but in the grand scheme of things, Greek life isn’t everything. You’ll survive and be fine. It’s not for everyone. There’s other ways to enjoy college!

By: Truth
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It's Not your fault! IU sororities have a exclusivity problems! Stop the bed quota, use RFM the correct way and have bigger PC classes! Until this happens many will drop after 9.

By: NPC
by: bed rush   

is basically a thing of the past, grandma. This year quota was not set until today when they could see how many girls went to a pref party. The main issue now is setting a standard size for membership, without this chapters can choose to have as many or as few was they want. That is the real problem.

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by: Well   

IU got rid of bed quota already. We're doing quota based on the number of pnms who choose to complete the process, like other schools. We still haven't moved to full quota total though.

By: Well
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by: NPC   

Sorry to disappointed not a Granny! U are missing the point!Quota was still set. Based of all who did drop?

By: NPC
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by: NO....   

You're missing the point. You have to set a quota or otherwise all women would choose 8 chapters to be in. Quota ensures that all chapters are viable.

By: NO....
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by: 🐼    

Quota is set at every school granny!

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Those were the only houses that wanted you, geed. Move on. We don't care.

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