informal rush

It's possible that they will do informal in the fall. Is the only reason you regret it because they now have a house?

WHY WOULD U REGRET IT? this pissses me off. so now they have a house and u regret it? meanwhile, if you didnt pick it you obviously didnt like the girls. dont join a house because they have a brand new house. girls are still the same.

Life is full of hard knocks. Most only come once. TPA knocked at your door with the opportunity of an informal invite, and you snubbed them. How they decide to treat you from now on may depend on how you first answered their call. There will always be other fish in the sea. Your sorority future may depend on your continued ability to look ahead and move forward.

Strike 3, you are out!

There are a few ways this might have work:

If you were merely invited to a first, informal party but did not attend that party I hope you were polite in declining.

If you attended one or two parties then declined to attend further parties when invited I hope you were as polite.

If you attended multiple parties and then declined a bid you need to know some groups have a private, unspoken recruitment policy that once a bid is declined, that person can never be re-bid.

Ultimately, we here cannot tell you if you will ever receive another TPA invitation and/or bid.