pressure

I remember going on here during recruitment and really liking an unhoused chapter, but then feeling self conscious and almost embarrassed about it after reading all the things people had to say about them. So I guess this is just a reminder to PNMs that no matter what people say about the chapters you like, just go with your heart and know that what you see in the sisterhood is so much more important than what other people think. Yes it is hard not to get caught up in reputations and rankings, but you're the one who's going to be spending the next four years with these girls, so trust your gut and don't be afraid to love the chapters that you love. there are pros and cons to every single chapter, but in the end, your chapter is your decision, and what you see in a chapter is not defined by some anonymous source on a website. Good luck PNMs! Be proud of how far you have come and keep your values close to heart as you go forward in this process. <3