9 party

9 and 3 party are usually when you'll just start having deeper conversations with the sisters. At this point theyre really looking for girls that fit in with the personality of the house so they're just gonna be looking for people they get along with well and can have an easy, non surface level conversation with.

The chants are over for most chapters (i think) and it starts to be a little bit more serious (and almost a little creepy but thats just how it is). Chances are you'll only be talking to two maybe even one girl during 9 and only one during 3.

Just be yourself and it will all work out as it should

Um these rounds aren't creepy, if you feel creeped out you should probably tell your Rho Gam, in general you'll connect over the philanthropy and qualities you like in your friends/potential "sisters", and maybe some mutual life experiences if youre rushed by girls that are very similar to you, if you're uncomfortable some rules might be being broken if you're generally fairly open to new people