"16" party

I've met people with anywhere from 1 to 16. I had 6 and most people I know had between 5 and 9.

I'd say the average is 8 or 9. Only a couple girls in my group got all 16. But some do only get 1 or 2 as well. It just varies.

There will be many PNMs who do not get 16 invitations back tomorrow, and while it may be hard to swallow don't let it get you down. You only have 30 minutes in each chapter, you can only say and do so much. There are so many other things that come into play when selection who to invite back and who to release. During the first round, it's really a numbers game. Low GPAs are usually the first to go unless you had a stellar conversation or have a connection inside the house. If a PNM is rude in a chapter or seems disinterested, she will most likely be a first round candidate.

Focus on the chapters which invited you back, they are you options now. Don't allow a chapter that didn't invite you back to ruin your chances with the one which invited you back by dwelling on what you could have done wrong, or what happened.

Get some sleep tonight and wake up ready for a new day.