ugh this site!!

Bottom line this site has become toxic. There are a few good honest posts here and there but many seem to;mysteriously disappear.
Pnms this is your recruitment. Trust yourself and trust your gut. If you like house xyz great like xyz regardless of what your friends, girls in your group, girls on your floor, and most of all people on this site say. If people say I though house abc was awkward and you thought they were great then they were great in your eyes trust that. If people love house rst but you thought they were tryhards(seems to be the new buzz word) trust that. Recruitment is a mutual selection process to a certain degree. If a house doesn’t invite you back it doesn’t mean they didn’t like you it means they found other girls they thought would be a better fit. A house you thought was meh day one might be your favorite day 3 and a house you loved day one might be a hard no by day 3. You are in college now don’t make decisions like a high school girl based on who the cool kids are. Find a place that you are comfortable in and can be yourself. Above all don’t let others sway your opinion. Trust yourself and your judgement.