alpha kappa psi

I did rush and it didn't go great because I'm a sophomore with mediocre grades, so many houses dropped me. I ended up dropping since I didn't like my remaining houses, but I still want to be involved with Greek life. AKPsi is having open rush this week and i want to check it out. I like that it's coed, and it seems pretty laid back but they do Greek week and have a house. Do they have a good social life? Are they nice? I don't really care about looks, but I do want good friendships from girls (and boys but only friendships!) and fun parties and good philanthropy. Anyone in it or can tell me about it?