i dont like my house
by: ....helpI don't love my sorority that i ran home to on bid day and it just seems so hard to drop out and then rush next year. and i feel like other sororities wont even take me next year because they will judge me on me dropping out this year. What should i do??
#3 by: j
i would definitely wait it out. sometimes it just takes some time to adjust and find your people. most chapters have about 6 weeks until initiation and as long as you drop before you are initiated you can rush again next fall. it can't hurt to wait it out until then, meet some more girls and then see if you like it better
#4 by: Give it time
The worst thing you can do is drop too soon. Stay a while and decide if its for you. talk with sisters and meet your PC. You can't tell much from just bid day. Besides after a few weeks you can still drop but you can at least know that you gave it a chance! Your house chose you and you chose that house for some reason or another so trust the system and try it on for size before immediately jumping ship. You will regret it if you drop too soon. Don't miss out on this new experience!
#7 by: Real
Look let's be honest. Every girl that expects to go top tier and doesn't tells themself they don't like their house because they don't fit in, don't feel comfortable, whatever. Truth is most of them are just mad they ended up in a bottom house and think it must be a mistake and that you're too good for the girls in your chapter. If this is you, get over it. You talked to what, 4-6 girls during rush and had a bid day buddy? You barely know your sorority. Give it a chance. Just make friends. If you still don't like it after getting over your post-recruitment bitterness, then drop and rerush. End rant lol.
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by: kAug 24, 2015 2:50:21 PM
it wasnt my choice at all. I dropped it all the time in the votings and i still dont like it. Would sororties next year, if i rush in the fall, look at it a bad way if they do find out?