sorority recruitment tips

I would have talked more about important stuff like who I am and what matters to me. I found myself in stale and stagnant conversations in a few houses and while that help me figure out they weren't the houses for me, it still would have been nice to leave a great impression at every house. But trust the system, you'll end up where you are supposed to be. If you feel like you are pulling teeth to keep a conversation going, maybe that isn't the place for you. If you don't want to leave a house because you are having an amazing convo and you can't stop laughing or smiling, don't worry about the letters or the tiers, don't worry about what anyone else thinks. Your home is exactly that, your home, not the commenter on here's home, or the girl behind you in line's, yours.

I wish that I'd looked in to the process more. I signed up really last minute and I didn't know what I was getting myself in to. I was nervous and didn't know what to talk about so I asked the girls what frats they hung out with and stuff like that because I thought that's what you were supposed to talk about...didn't work out too well for me lol, got dropped by a lot of the chapters. But I ended up finding my home so in the end it was alright.