saw this on fsu's page & thought it was relatable

Hey guys, as a woman thats very active in the Panhellenic community, not only my own chapter, i wanted to give some advice to future PNMS. Every single year, i see sororities that work so hard to better themselves. They better themselves in rasing money for charities, they work hard to make social connections, they work on presentation, and even just work on bettering themselves individually in every way. Ive seen chapters come such a long way in the span of maybe 1 or 2 years, like completely turn their chapters around from whatever was holding them back, maybe probation or just problems in the sisterhood. Understand that no chapter is today, what they were a year ago. And that is an amazing thing! Be that as it may, people are stuck to the ranks they have known. I don't usually come on this site but if you were to ask me what the rankings were i could only tell you what I remember from looking here as a PNM, and that was years ago lol. And i promise you that stigma has been carried on here by others as well. When every sorority is evoloving so much, how can we put ranks to them based on reputation. It is hard to imagine anybody on this site truly knows all of these sororities, truly knows the women who are in them, and know the sisterhood. Please understand that the greek life is an amazing thing, and that you are here looking to find a HOME. Focus on what you see with your OWN eyes, focus on what you feel with these chapter memebers and go in the direction you want