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by: HF

I seriously got rejected from every frat. I met all of the requirements, and still got rejected. I don't know how to feel about this. Should I try rushing in the spring.

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#1  by: you   
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You need to seriously examine yourself and look within to find out what made you undesirable to literally every frat on campus. Your personality? Your behavior? Your looks?

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#2  by: HF   
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I think it was a combination of my looks, behavior, and personality. Should I work on myself and try again in the spring? I'm also a sophomore so would that hurt my chances?

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by: sureAug 21, 2017 10:36:37 AM

You may as well try. But don't get your hopes up. And keep an open mind and be willing to join any chapter.

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by: sureAug 21, 2017 10:37:28 AM

Wait, so you're admitting something was wrong with your behavior? What did you do?

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#3  by: HF   
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I felt like I was awkward. Not a lot of eye contact and short conversations. Also, I felt that I was just dweeb like, and it felt like I talked funny and was fake.

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by: @HFAug 21, 2017 11:01:03 AM

Maybe being in a frat isn't meant for you then? Like maybe you are meant to join some club where people would like you for you more. You shouldn't change yourself for others to like you, be yourself and change the destination on what you're doing.

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#4  by: HF   
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Maybe you're right, but I feel that I should work on myself and give it another shot. And if it happens it happens, and if doesn't then it doesn't. I just gotta start working towards something. I'm not happy with my life right now, and believe that change can make me into a better person.

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#5  by: WTF???   
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There are close to 20 Fraternities at UA and you got rejected from everyone? Word of advice.....Greek Life is probably not for you. Seek an Academic, Service or Professional society to join.

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by: @HFAug 21, 2017 11:31:33 AM

I think you need to find yourself first and selfconfidence before trying to rush again. Looks like you're lacking self worth and no frats will like you if you don't like yourself. You need some professional help not advise from greekrank..

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#6  by: @HF   
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You can try to work on yourself and give it another shot, but in the meantime you should join a club and make some friends to build up your social skills.

There are some huge dweebs and weirdos in bottom frats like phi delt. If houses like that rejected you, then there must be something seriously wrong that you aren't telling us.

I don't think Greek life is the right fit for you.

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#7  by: @HF   
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Did you go to ALK? I don't know if they do regular rush but they're a frat that usually is accepting of everyone, I'd give it a shot they still throw parties I think.

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#8  by: LOL   
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OP just trolled everyone

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#9  by: HF   
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I think imma just start over from scratch, and try again in the spring.
Imma work on myself a lot of the next 4 months, and rush again.

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by: ok dudeAug 21, 2017 7:45:46 PM

don't forget to grow at least a foot taller over the next 4 months too

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#10  by: Bruh   
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Due Just chill. Work on your self and try again in the spring. Don't worry, tons of kids get cut, and come back in the spring.

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