rushed documentary realistic?

only for certain houses. you will be able to gauge which houses are superficial like that. join a house that you feel is genuine, where you feel like you are making genuine connections with the women there. i've become friends with multiple girls through recruitment. that documentary is misleading - it has truth to it because there are people that rush/do greek life for superficial reasons but, like i said, only in certain chapters.

the documentary is pretty biased. this is northwestern, not some southern state school, and our greek life is more based on personality/fit than looks/status. i'm in a "top tier sorority" (put it in quotes because it doesn't mean anything) and my pledge class is pretty diverse in terms of looks/style.

That documentary is so so old!!! I can't speak for other chapters but mine is NOTHING like that in terms of recruitment processes

Don't look at the so-called "rankings" because most of them are superficial crap. Look for a group of girls that YOU like and that like YOU. So you really, really like a "low-tier" group? GO FOR IT! Then make it your mission to make that house the absolute best it can be.. I am SO sick of these superficial rankings. There are chill girls in every house. Go find them -- and good luck!

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