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During the fall you go will meet brothers through mainly "sunday night dinners" or you might meet a few brothers at wildcat welcome parties or preorentation programs. Sunday night dinners is in which you go fraternity hopping eating and chatting with brothers. Through who you are talking to if they like you they will give you their number and invite you to parties, date nights, formals or chill at the house. They can either cut you off if they start to not liking you or continuously invite you to stuff. Then first week of winter quarter fraternities can formally hand out bids. It can be competitive especially if you are trying to go "top 4" and you see people getting invited to stuff and you arent but just all in all be yourself.