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Does anyone else feel disconnected from the older girls in the sorority more like juniors and seniors. They're kind of intimidating and don't seem interested in getting to know us.

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Some of the older guys in fraternities seem a bit intimidating at first, but most of them if not all make an effort to make you comfortable. The dynamic might be a bit different in sororities, but if needed, stick with the friends you already have in your sorority, but also talk to the older girls if you want to/have a chance. You don't need to be best friends with every single person in your sorority but want to be on speaking terms with almost all.

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You will literally make a few real friends and not give a damn about the rest besides being able to be friendly with 95% of the people

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If you're in the organization, you're probably gonna end up being friends with more than a few. You spend a ton of time together, and the older people usually make an effort to get to know you

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I said REAL friends, not associates you only say hi to and go out to eat with. I'm talking about people who you will talk to 5 years after college. Let's not pretend that Greek life here means life long friendships, because most people I know only talk to one or two of the ppl from their Greek organization.

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You can't force it, if you end up being best buds with someone in the sorority it'll end up happening. You'll do fine, if you're with a group of people for 4 years you'll end up being close with a good number of them

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hhh

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