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theta and transfers

by: Very unhappy NM

Does Theta accept transfers for affiliation? I am not going to ask family or friends that are actives/alumnae in PKT at UT because apparently they give awful advice, so I'm coming to ask here. Most of yall probably already know my story, and I talked to an amazing Texas Theta last night. Given my situation at UA, I think I'm going to stay until initiation and then transfer back to UT for the Spring. Does it matter that Theta is bottom tier at UA? They're all socially awkward and weird so I don't fit in there at all. I know I would fit in with the Thetas here. Please help!

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#11  by: Dear Selfish NM   
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Do you realize what you've done to your fellow PC members? How selfish of you to act this way. Were you not raised any better?

By: Dear Selfish NM
#12  by: Not Happening   
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There will not be a Theta transfer from Alabama to our chapter in the next 4 years. Never. I will guarantee that. So you are SOL. We have sisters from different chapters all over the states, top tier, bottom tier, and in between. All are equal and loved the same. But what you said all over green rank is a slap in the face. Buh bye!

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#13  by: Very unhappy NM   
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I apologized on Bama's page. Please don't hold this against me!

By: Very unhappy NM
by: IdiotAug 26, 2015 11:50:55 AM

Too late c u n t. Empty apologies from a spoiled brat mean nothing. You will get dropped from bama theta and you won't even get a bid anywhere if you try to rush here. Not even the bottom tier, which is all in your head anyway

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by: ^Aug 26, 2015 1:21:35 PM

Getting nervous about chapter tonight aren't you R? You will never be a Texas Theta and probably won't be a Bama one for much longer.

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#14  by: olderwiser   
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Please don't use such vulgar language to attack this pledge-- she said people seemed awkward and weird to her. That isn't a reason to call her vulgar names and to stoop to her level (or below her level). Have some perspective-- she didn't like a sorority she pledged. So what? It isn't a big deal in the scheme of things. It barely is even a deal at all.

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by: ^Aug 26, 2015 1:19:13 PM

Go back to the Alabama page old lady!

This girl deliberately tried to use Theta for personal gain then came online to bash them. She deserves everything she gets.

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#15  by: olderwiser   
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It depends on what you mean by "gets." Not being in the sorority or being rejected socially by them, sure-- I think that she deserves that because she just wasn't nice to them. It might be cool to not kick her out and to try to integrate her into things but it would be understandable not to! I was just arguing against going overboard and really getting vindictive toward her, which seemed to be the way everyone was reacting. It was starting to read like people were going to burn her apartment down or something and it made me feel scared a crime was getting ready to be committed.

PS there is nothing wrong with being an old lady :) You will be one someday.

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by: @ olderwiserAug 26, 2015 5:00:56 PM

I'd like to apologize on behalf of those that found the 'old lady' comment offensive. Your thoughts and insight are welcome here always.

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by: For real?Aug 26, 2015 5:27:39 PM

There IS something wrong with being an old lady and hanging out on a college site! Stop trying to relive your youth and go get a life! Make some real life grow up friends! You're sad!

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by: ummmAug 26, 2015 7:37:20 PM

"...scared a crime was getting ready to be committed"??? You are the only one overreacting.

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#16  by: As if   
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Even if they actually let you in, nothing gonna help you here. my guess is they just getting ducks in a row and letting things die down before letting you go quietly into the night. Good luck.

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#17  by: UTKAT   
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Yes, we vote to accept affiliations or not.
Yes, I know your name in "real life"
No, you will never, ever, ever be an Alpha Theta.

By: UTKAT
by: Nuh UhAug 27, 2015 9:49:49 PM

Theta voted several conventions ago that all sisters could transfer from one chapter to another with NO vote by the chapter to accept the transferring sister.

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by: Very unhappy NMAug 28, 2015 1:40:41 PM

Well, we will see about that!!! I'm still a NM of Theta, and plan on staying until Initiation and then making my decision. I'll probably transfer to UT, and if I do, you'll HAVE to welcome me with open arms! Also, I was admitted to UT...I chose UA bc of the awesome scholarship and I wanted to meet new people but still have the ultimate Greek experience. I didn't think things would work out this way. I'll be a happy Theta at UT in no time unless some kind of miracle occurs and Bama Theta proves themselves not to be socially awkward and weird. TLAM ;)

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by: @Nuh huhAug 28, 2015 5:14:41 PM

There are ways around this. It is not iron clad. Special circumstances can waive any affiliation requirement. If this isn't a special circumstance, I don't know what is. So don't fret. We have options. Even if held over for initiation, this toad will never be an Alpha Theta.

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#18  by: Uh huh...right.   
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You claimed your family had so much money that you would definitely be admitted as a transfer to UT (wink, wink) yet you came to Bama on a scholarship. So which one is it Very unhappy NM?

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by: Why wouldn't she Aug 29, 2015 6:50:15 AM

accept an academic scholarship, regardless of how much money her family does or does not have? Maybe they HAVE money because they are not stupid (like the above post?).

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by: Uh huh...rightAug 29, 2015 12:28:49 PM

Because she says she wants to be a Theta at UT....although in her OP she said she wanted to escape TX so who knows. Hard to keep up with all the troll's stories.

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#19  by: cynic   
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See new post about how suspiciously stupid OP was/is, along with the whine-y PNM mother who did everything but post her daughter's photo on here. Maybe we're all being duped.

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#20  by: Arrow   
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Wow your behaviour is appalling. I'm not a sister of Theta but if you were a NM in my organization you would never be initiated, let alone accepted as an affiliated member. Joining a sorority should be a decision based on sisterhood, philanthropy and values - not whether those particular Greek letters will afford you more "opportunities" into things like Junior League. You should be so ashamed of yourself and I truly hope Bama Theta cuts you.

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