getting dropped after philanthropy round?
by: helloi had 6 houses i visited and i really had my heart set on 4 of them. i feel like i had really good conversations with all the houses, but i’m scared of getting cut, especially since one is in pkt and another in the big 6. i didn’t have any connections to them originally besides rec letters but i feel like i genuinely clicked with them and had amazing conversations. would they still drop me after that? what’s the likelihood
#1by: Sad
I think the cuts are going to be much bigger this round than last. Think big six kept more girls for philanthropy than usual. I can’t promise you it will all be ok, but you will be just as happy with girls outside of big six. Go in with an open mind and give your other houses a chance.
Comment#4by: Last year’s pnm
I don’t want to be a downer, but it’s totally a possibility that you click with a girl in a certain house and get cut. It happened to me a few times last year (ex: at zeta philanthropy I actually cried talking to my girl bc my mom had gone through treatment for breast cancer that year, and then they cut me). While this really sucks, esp bc you can’t pinpoint anything you did wrong if you felt you were being yourself, try really hard not to take it personally. Every sorority makes cuts differently, so depending on the chapter, sometimes the girl you talk to has no say in whether you make it to the next round or not. Like everyone else has said, you will find sisterhood no matter where you end up, and in 20 years, you’ll care more about those relationships than about which frats you mixed with.
#5by: Me
Do not get your heart set on anyone or you are almost guaranteed to get your heart broken. Treat the 6 houses you have as if they are the only ones on campus. If you get invitations to Sisterhood and Pref, treat those as if they are the only ones on campus- because they will be your only chance to join a sorority. Anyone who cuts you is not an option anymore.
Good luck!
#7by: Seriously
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All the more important to remember this going into pref.
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