How do I know if a chapter likes me??

by: judcAug 20, 2020 10:31:39 AM

Subject line says it all. Am a legacy at a house, not sure if they invited me back only b/c they have to or if they liked me.

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#1 by: tough Aug 20, 2020 12:05:36 PM

that's a hard one to gauge and depends on the house. most chapters have a ton of legacies coming through so if you got asked back and they seemed genuinely interested in you, they likely want you and are not just asking you back because you're a legacy.

By: toughAug 20, 2020 12:05:36 PM

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#2 by: Advice Aug 20, 2020 12:16:41 PM

I know this is frustrating, but you’ll know if you just be patient. Houses have different legacy policies. Some have to cut them after first round if they don’t like them. Some will invite them back at least once as a courtesy. Some have no obligation to do anything for them at all. I would say though that if you’re invited back to pref you’re definitely safe

By: AdviceAug 20, 2020 12:16:41 PM