Dear pnmsss,

Hey y’all so I'm currently in a sorority and I wanted to reach out to any PNMs going through this site. You really just shouldn't. You're going to just see people constantly bashing on other sororities telling them they aren't good enough, or see self ranking. I don't understand why being top tier is so important. You should go through recruitment with an open mind giving each chapter a chance, and not just worry about how high on the stupid sorority rank list you want to be. I went through recruitment with an open mind, and I ended up happier than ever. And no, I have nothing against any of the sororities. I have friends in basically every chapter and they're all wonderful girls.