axd

Alpha Xi Delta is going to be whatever the girls who are selected make it. Who cares what anyone else really thinks? If you like it and think it's for you than just enjoy your time as a colony member!

I honestly dont judge girls a ton based on their house regardless

No one will judge you! Seriously. I love my house but I think it'd be the coolest thing to be a founding member. People rarely get the chance to be apart of something like that! You should def. do it!

I'm thinking about AXD too. Has anyone been to their recruitment events? I totally missed out on all of them.

You have the chance to join a sorority that has no expectations, no reputation, and no direction. That probably sounds like a bad thing, but it's the girls like you that are going to set the standard and decide what AXiD will be on campus. No one will judge you for joining a new organization and defining it in the Greek community. At the start, you won't be having socials with the big established fraternities, but there's so many smaller upcoming fraternities that you'll have the opportunity to become close with (In my opinion this is a plus). That's the most insignificant part though in my opinion, since no fraternity will turn you away at parties for your affiliation. This is a choice of opportunity, not desperation.

You can make it whatever you want! It would be an exciting opportunity to make history with a new house.