All top houses are not the same

Or mid-tier or lower. I see a lot of PNMs worrying about how many top houses they are getting cut from or asked back to, without really thinking about where they actually fit the best. I'm in a so-called top house and tbh, there is a reason some of them cut me during rush - they wouldn't have been right for me. I cut one where I couldn't see myself and preffed a top and mid-tier, and so did a lot of my friends. I would have been happy in either and I know I wouldn't have been comfortable at some of the other top houses. Wisconsin's greek life is not like at other schools - all the houses have strong sisterhoods and are active on campus. If you aren't getting asked back to top houses, it's not because there is anything wrong with you, it's just because you probably fit better at some other amazing house with amazing girls.