Going back and forth between dropping and staying
by: idkI know everyone’s saying to stick it out but honestly i’m just not having a good time? I just went back to four houses I didn’t vibe with first round and I didn’t vibe with them again - surprise. I just want to drop. And I am going to admit that I am slightly superficial. I do care what other people think of me and I honestly just feel like I am not good enough. I absolutely wish I still had a “top” sorority. And I definitely know that there are sooo many others who feel the same and idk i’m just tired of hearing “if you feel like that you shouldn’t be in greek life” because I definitely do want to give the other houses a chance but it’s so hard when you come in with all these expectations (ik ik I shouldn’t have them). So I just don’t know what to do now
#1 by: Keep calm <3
I respect you a lot for saying that actually. It’s ok to be hurt. That’s 100% okay. But also acknowledge that your hurt is what’s driving your decision making right now. If you drop at the end of prefs, you will know that you made the choice after thinking about it and calming down. You don’t have to be a perfect person but acknowledging faults are important too
#3 by: honestly
you should think about why you really care about being in a “top” sorority and if your experience at school would actually change if you weren’t. (it won’t) if that’s all you care about then yeah you probably shouldn’t be rushing. even if you made it in to one of those sororities i promise you’d still be unhappy if that’s all you care about:(
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by: GuestJan 24, 2021 3:58:30 PM
but if you're looking for a "top" sorority they don't usually do COB so dont rely on that