a dilemma that sucks

by: jawnNov 20, 2020 10:48:12 AM

I rushed a frat in the fall and deferred the bid. The thing is that I really like all the guys there, the only reason I deferred was because many don't consider them to be one of the "top" ones or even upper middle. Should I factor these subjective reputation perception into my decision making next semester or should I just go with whomever I like and vibe the most regardless of ranking or tiers

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#1 by: Truth Nov 20, 2020 10:50:34 AM

go with what you vibe with

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#2 by: lmfao Nov 20, 2020 12:26:02 PM

go with the one with the guys u like best.

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#3 by: omg Nov 20, 2020 12:32:50 PM

rankings don't matter.

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#4 by: guy Nov 21, 2020 3:58:15 AM

Go with who you liked. These will be your friends. Who cares about the rankings.

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#5 by: truthteller Nov 23, 2020 12:06:00 AM

If you liked these guys in the Fall, then they are the ones for you. Ranks don't matter. Brothers do!

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#6 by: umich Nov 24, 2020 1:48:08 AM

The whole point of a fraternity is brotherhood. Go with the guys you liked in the Fall.

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#7 by: L Nov 25, 2020 11:18:14 AM

The reality of joint a frat is that tiers only matter for freshman/sophomore year mixers. Likely all 3 years after you pledge you’re going to be living with guys in your pc and spending a tonnnn of time with them so definitely go with who you like the best

By: LNov 25, 2020 11:18:14 AM