drop? cob?

by: confuseddddd October 2, 2018 5:16:26 PM

Accepted a bid from a sorority that was not my top choice. Wanted two sororities that dropped me but are very selective (top tier ones). I want to be in a sorority so bad but not sure if it's worth being in one I don't love. Realllyyyy want to be in those other two. Worth dropping and rushing next year? would COB be an option (I don't know any older girls in the sororities I want, just girls in their new pc's) ?

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#1by: o October 2, 2018 5:24:23 PM

you can't COB this year bc you accepted a bid. i say give this sorority a chance and if you really don't see yourself staying there, drop in a few weeks

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#2by: help October 2, 2018 5:46:04 PM

The time to gauge how you feel is always right before you rank for big/little. No need to break someone's heart by dropping after they've already gotten you as a little, but you will probably make friends over the next month and want to stay by that point.

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#3by: sorority girl October 2, 2018 6:30:36 PM

So, why are you still pining away for girls who didn’t want you? Screw them! You weren’t good enough for them, so what makes you think you will be able to change anything for you to meet their criteria? And why would you even want to do that? Be yourself and give this house a chance. These girls chose you.. They wanted you. And you, at least, felt some connection to them or why you rank them? Not every girl can be in a top-tier. And, quite frankly, many of the mid and lower tiers have the best sisterhoods. Give it a chance

By: sorority girlOctober 2, 2018 6:30:36 PM