no bid. what to do?
by: JonSnow
I rushed some houses to see what was out there (AEPi, OX, Chi phi, Alpha sig) but I didn't get a single bid, or even an invite back to any other rush events. Before y'all start blasting me and calling me a weirdo and social reject, I can assure you that I did as good of a job as I could to talk to a lot of brothers at each house, and actually be sociable.
There are three options here: Join Psi U, take a late bid, or rush in the winter?
Whats's the best thing to do here?
#5 by: Jules
Greek life isn't for everyone. You don't have to be a part of a fraternity to have status or friends on campus. I'm in a sorority here and most of my best friends I made from my hall freshman year, the clubs I did, and classes I took. Honestly, people sometimes find greeklife to be a necessary part of a college experience and it's not. Join some clubs, if you still feel the need to join a frat after a semester here, wait until the winter and try again....there's tons more frats for you to go try out that you did not include in your list.
#6 by: Jules
Greek life isn't for everyone. You don't have to be a part of a fraternity to have status or friends on campus. I'm in a sorority here and most of my best friends I made from my hall freshman year, the clubs I did, and classes I took. Honestly, people sometimes find greeklife to be a necessary part of a college experience and it's not. Join some clubs, if you still feel the need to join a frat after a semester here, wait until the winter and try again....there's tons more frats for you to go try out that you did not include in your list.
#7 by: just the truth
Look, every sorority has hot girls. If your concern is "banging the hottest girls" it really doesn't matter what fraternity you end up in. On another note, looking to join a top tier fraternity only to meet girls isn't going to get you in. No matter what fraternity you end up in, brotherhood matters. Frats give bids to guys they can see themselves hanging out with. If you either act like you are better than a house or make clear that your only interest is meeting girls, you'll for sure get cut. My best advice to you would be to look into late rush with some of the smaller fraternities. See if you actually get along with the guys in the house and could see yourself hanging out with them regardless of whether girls are involved or not. If none of them are right for you, then go ahead and try winter rush with the larger houses.
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by: JonSnowSep 26, 2016 5:19:02 PM
Thanks for the advice, but I actually rushed there too and wasn't even invited back for any exclusive rush events. Just kinda got dropped. Ik that's pathetic so yeah