reminder for today!
by: Dogonablog
To all the PNMs you did it!! Rush week is challenging physically, mentally, and emotionally but today is your last day of hard work. Use you’re time at the houses today to get any last minute questions answered in case you’re feeling uncertain. Don’t be afraid to be honest, no one will be hurt if you express you don’t feel like this particular house is for you. Current members want you to be happy too! And as I said if you’re unsure what to choose think of whats making you hesitate. Be transparent with whoever you interact with and you can gain reassurance and support even if you decide at the end of the day that house isn’t for you. Lastly don’t base your opinion on houses off of what is said on this site, choose based on how you felt and what you’re looking for! And yes it is ok to say you’re looking for (insert factor) from a house hence why you’re not interested! It makes it easier on everyone. But please remember that if you are at a house you are 100% sure you’re not interested still be polite to those ladies as they have worked just as hard as y’all this week. Since it is still the formal recruitment process stonewalling can still be reported & lead to consequences so don’t let your work go to waste!
Most importantly best of luck, I promise your work will pay off:)
#1 by: Don’t
This is terrible advice if you want to receive a bid. Do not let a house know you are not a fit, but once you sign your rank card tonight you are accepting to be placed in 1 of the 2 houses you visited. If you know you 100% do not see yourself happy in one of these houses and are going to drop tomorrow if you get that house, know that you are taking someone’s place who wanted to be there. Nothing worse than being excited about bid day and being with girls who do not want to be there.
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by: DogonablogJan 11, 2020 9:14:30 AM
Everyones experience is different!! I know a few women from different chapters had PNM’s tell them straightforward that yesterday they were a bit sad or stressed instead of brickwalling and ended up with really good conversations, myself included! I guess it varies chapter to chapter as I personally wouldn’t be offended as I’d want to be having deeper level conversations with them.