for the guys:

Gents,

Be sure to look at every fraternity on campus when rushing. I know it sounds cliche but you really should give it a try and explore all options. I made a horrible mistake of rushing only one fraternity my freshman year. Once I got a bid, I realized the mistake I had made. I quit and rushed a few fraternities in the fall of my sophomore year and am now so happy to be a part of my brotherhood. I owe it all to giving it and the other frats a chance. Don't suicide rush or go in with any preconceived notions. The only one going to miss out is you.