common misconception

I would like to clarify something for PNMs. So at the bottom of the bottom, yes, many girls are kind of weird. That's not to say they don't have cool girls because literally every single sorority has at least some cool girls. I think the term "middle tier" or "upper middle" or "lower middle" or whatever makes it sound like you're joining a bunch of weirdos, or girls who weren't cool in high school. This is absolutely not the case. By default girls who want to join sororities are social and probably have been considered as at least somewhat popular at some point in their lives. However rush is very superficial and primarily based on looks. This is where the "rankings" come from!!! If you find yourself in zeta or azd or deeph or whatever please don't think "oh these are the girls who aren't as cool." There are as many girls in middle tier sororities that are sociable/fun/funny/liked by boys as there are in top tier sororities. The difference only comes down to looks and in some cases, grades. It's understandable to be hurt if a top tier drops you but please do NOT be sad to join a middle tier sorority, you will most likely end up loving it